Anonymous: I've had friends deal with this problem. I feel as if, if someone really cared about you, they wouldn't mind certain things. And since communication is a key to maintaining a healthy relationship, if the talks are not the same, or you both rarely talk then that could be a serious problem. But don't blame your pet peeves or your needs because they are important. If he can't come to terms with that, then his intentions aren't the same as yours and it may be time to move on.
Thank you! I think I’m going to break up with him tomorrow.